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Quiz 1: Are You A Good Lover?

What Are Your Sexual Experiences and Desire?

This test focuses on your sexual desires. This test only takes about 10 minutes. Take it when you are comfortable and not distracted. There is no time limit. When you are ready, begin. For each of the 13 questions choose the number which best represents your experience and the number which indicates your wishes.
Do not rush. Be honest with yourself and have fun!

Instructions

In the first row after each question, choose the number that corresponds with how often each of these experiences happen to you.

In the second row after each question, choose the number which means how often you would like it to happen to you.

Be sure to answer each question. You will get a score after you answer the last item.

Possible Answers

1
Never

2
Rarely

3
Occasionally

4
Fairly Often

5
Usually

6
Always

Sexual Activity

1. Seeing your partner nude.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

2. Your partner seeing you nude.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

3. Kissing for one minute continuously.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

4. Giving your partner a body massage without touching sexual parts.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

5. Your partner giving you a body massage without touching sexual parts.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

6. Caressing your partner's private parts with your hands
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

7. Your partner caressing your private parts with their hands.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

8. Caressing your partner's private parts with your lips or mouth.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

9. Your partner caressing your private parts with their lips or mouth.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

10. Caressing your partner until he/she reaches orgasm.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

11. Your partner caressing you until you reach orgasm.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

12. Having sexual intercourse.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

13. Having sexual intercourse until you both have an orgasm.
How often this experience happens to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6
How often you would like this experience to happen to you:	1 2 3 4 5 6

End of Test

LoPiccolo J. & Steger J. The sexual interaction inventory: a new instrument
for assessment of sexual dysfunction.
Archives of Sexual Behavior 1974; 3: 585-595.

Used with permission.